getlessangry.com

Free reset

Calm Home Reset

One pause, one repair sentence, one calmer next step.

1. Stop adding fuel

Say: "I am overloaded. I do not need to solve the whole problem in this minute."

2. Name the pattern

Pick one: about to lose it, already went too far, transition problem, support problem, routine problem.

3. Use one repair sentence

"That got louder than I wanted. I am going to pause and try again."

4. Choose one next step

Get water, step away for 60 seconds, write the next sentence, set a timer, or ask what the smallest next step is.